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Some general hints for enjoyable swinging
If you attend a swingers
club or party event at some point during the evening, whether
you have sex or not, you will be getting close to others. It
goes without saying that a good standard of cleanliness is more
than desirable. Take a shower before you go, brush your teeth
and shave, where appropriate. Ensure fingers and toe nails are
nicely manicured!!
Most clubs will also provide
facilities to ‘freshen up’ during the evening and it is sensible
to take your own towel to use if you decide to wash or shower
during the night.
Don't be afraid to
socialise,
ask questions, most people at swinging events are more than
happy to answer questions and talk about their experience of the
scene.
If you attend with your partner, unless you have
decided beforehand to split up, don’t just abandon them, an
abandoned partner can quickly became a jealous and emotional
partner.
Another aspect worthy of consideration is whether
or not alcohol consumption is conducive
to
enjoyable swinging or not. At then end of the day it really
depends on how you handle alcohol and what effect it has on you.
It is certainly not recommended that your drink excessively,
particularly on your first visit to a club or attendance at a
swingers party .Too much alcohol will leave you wondering
whether you had sex with someone because you were pissed or
whether you exercised freedom of choice in a conscious effort to
broaden your horizons.
To really enjoy the experience it is essential
that you know where you are and where your partner is and that
you are both within the limits that you set yourselves, that you
are doing what you want whilst respecting the wishes and
personal boundaries of others you encounter. Experience
indicates that alcohol is not always the greatest aid to
maintaining the proper sense of awareness and has been known to
impede performance!!
Always remember the golden rule, no means no. If
you do not wish to have sex with someone just, politely, say no.
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