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Swingers FAQ's Home,
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What might I like about
swinging?
Individual may join the
swinging scene for a variety of reasons. Many couples find the
thought of having sex with other people either individually or
as a couple extremely arousing and swinging offers the
opportunity to explore this and other sexual experiences
further. Many couples say that swinging has improved not only
their sex lives but has made their emotional relationship
stronger.
Society, for all it’s
perceived liberalism, still harbours fairly repressive attitudes
toward ‘sexuality’ and the swinging scene provides a new social
network with the opportunity for individuals and couples to
forms friendships with others who have a similar outlook and
view having sex with others where this a mutual attraction as
natural extension to that relationship.
Although the swinging
community may not always be the best place for males to explore
their bi-sexuality it is certainly very excepting of women who
wish to explore theirs and can sometimes be the reason couples
join the swinging scene. Society still views women who have a
high sex drive derisively whereas men with such ‘prowess’ are
seen as ‘studs’. The swinging scene allows females especially to
explore their sexual assertiveness and may provide an openness
that many find both refreshing and stimulating.
What might I not like
about swinging?
Clearly if you are likely to be ‘upset’ or
‘offended’ by others flirting with you or making more obvious
sexual advances then the chances are that you will feel
uncomfortable at a swinging event.
Jealousy can be another big issue and you must
give this careful consideration before attending a part or going
to a swingers club
For most couples swinging
works best when it is seen as an enhancement to their existing
sexual relationship rather than a replacement to one that is
either non existent on shaky ground.
If either you or your
partner are looking for either a temporary or permanent
replacement for a current sexual or emotional relationship and
are hoping that swinging will provide the answer; you will
probably be disappointed. If you are unable to communicate
comfortably with your partner or others about sex and
relationships then it might be best that you wait a while before
dipping your toes in the water, as it were.
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